To be or not to be?

Seriously, there have been this sudden dispute over the internet about a certain someone. Everyone have their own choice to what they believe and what they would do about it. If it's only for my one decision that made you not to friend me, i have nothing to say. Honestly, you don't know how i actually think- so if you were to judge me as some blind person who can't tell what's right from wrong- then let me tell you this, your wrong.

I do know what's going on, I also believe into siding on the side which i think it's right. But i also believe in the theory of giving people a second chance, the chance to amend for their very own mistakes. Not everyone is perfect, and it all could be in the heat of the moment thing. So why not? Don't tell me you would want your friends to disown you after you did something bad? Probably something you meant to do at first but regret it later? I believe that anyone do feel bad when they do something wrong, no matter how tiny the emotion is.

Sides, why build bridges when your so bend on destroying it? Friends are something you would want to keep, not someone you throw away after you found out that they did something not to your liking.

And i said i give second chances, but i never gave third chances. Believe me, once the second chance is gone- i would ignore that person no matter what happens. Why give another chance when they didn't even want to grasp it in the first place? I would feel that he's taking our friendship for granted- thus, i will break all my relations with the person.

Guess what, i always set deadlines for second chances- and for the most recent case, it's up till the end of december. I would expect things to clear up by then. If not, i would say bye bye to the relationship. Call me cold-hearted if you want, but what can you do to people who doesn't want to repent?

And oh, i kind of dislike friends who doesn't give me a chance to explain before cutting me off. Thinking that they are really smart, trying to assume my thoughts- assume that it's something that will have negative harm on them. Well, if they like to think that way, fine, think that way then, i don't mind. That sort of friendship is not what i would want to have anyway; no faith, no nothing. What's the point of being friends then, forget it.