Gosh, today can be said to be the best day of my life. I have lots of FUN! Why? Cause today was the day where the "Choir-bonding session" plan was being executed. I was one of the person who planned the whole thing, and all i can say was- it was successful since i have got positive feedbacks!
Well, i won't describe how the whole session went- it would make the post extremely long-, but i would describe parts where i would sound/look good in it xP. The first thing we did was to form teams(4 in total), after that, we went to the basketball court and started playing captain's ball. Ultimately, MY team emerged victorious! :)
After that we played the game that i dread most- Musical chairs. Well, i can't deny that it's boring and all, cause it was! But I liked the part where the person who got out, would have to do forfeit! And yea, we got a briefing, then got dismissed.
You think my fantasic day would just end here? Nooo~. After the choir was dismissed, me, luigi, jie yi, kimberly, farid, jun wei stayed back to have a little game of skipping ropes!- The one where the ropes are made up of rubber bands and you swing it-. We were lyk playing halfway when, the malevelont teacher- opps, benevolent teacher came. Guess who she was. If ur guessing Ms SOH then, yes, your correct! She played with us for awhile, where we got the record of having 27 jumps with everyone in the skipping rope together. IT was just SO much fun. Can't wait to have another bonding session!
Okay, so the topic today would be...Crying. Before i start blabberin about it, i would want to show you a quote i made up myself.
"Beneath the depth of the ocean, lies a lonely boy; encased by a frozen wall. Can you hear him? He’s weeping softly, calling out for companionship. Can you see him? He’s hugging his knees and when you look into his eyes, you could distinguish sorrow, melancholy, but most of all, a message implying; “don’t drown into your tears, like me…’"
Actually i made this up quite some time ago and i have been wanting to use it- I wanted to put it in my nickname or PM, but it is just tooo long to even have quater of the message to fill in there! Trying to summarise would made the quote lose it's orgination intention/meaning. So i decided to just leave it as it is. Until today, when my imaginary lightbulb suddenly buzz!
Okay, so Crying. Everything have their good and bad sides in it- and it varies depending on how you look at them. Sure, when you think of crying, you would think about something sad happening to a person. But crying can also be done when someone is extremely happy! It is just an action a person carried out to let out him/herself's emotions. So, i don't get it why most people say that guys can't cry. I mean, it is a natural process- no one teach you how to cry, but yet you know how to cry.
People may see crying as pathetic and weak. Yet they never knew the true nature of crying. Crying also help in calming one's emotions; bottling them up doesn't help at all. You never knew when you need to cry. I believe that even the most cold-hearted person would have at least cried once in their lifetime(excluding when they are young), be it happy or not. Since I think that, no one is borned to be cold-hearted at all, instead it's what the surrounding that make us who we are. For example, family, friends, etc.
So how does family affects one's growth? Th parents are usually the ones playing the major role. Their way of teaching, what they teach and what they frequently do would mostly determine what kind of person the child would be. For example, If the dad is a drunkyard and always hit the child after going crazy. The child would learn to distrust people- and learn to be independent. After all, the child has no one to turn to, right?
What about friends? IT's about PEER-pressure. And dependin on what kind of friends you interact with. It can be seen in our everyday life- you know, friends introducing them to smoke, drug and stuff. Even the least harmful things like online games, sense of fashion can also be caused by PEER-pressure alone.
There are also cases whereby people cry for nothing- no particular reasons at all. In which that mostly includes drama. I always wondered on how can they cry without any reasons, i kinda figured out that, just by remembering or even imagine sad things would also make you cry! I tried that before, and i never wanted to try it again, cause the crying seems too fake for me. I am lyk, smiling and cryin at the same thing while i am thinkin about sad things. Ironic right?
I guess i wrote too much for this post, sorry if it sore your eyes! Adieus~
You know you love me,
So-called teddybear
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